But you don't. You're too nervous. Is he too hot? Is he taken? Who knows!? The doubt is just too much for you to make a move.
Well, here's my own little attempt at a solution. My NEW weekly series: Gorgeous, Gay, and Twenty Questions! The premise is as easy as I am when you get enough vodka in me: I pull aside a gorgeous, gay twenty-something and give him a good grilling for you.
Each week you'll meet a new gay hottie and they will spill out their most private thoughts, right here on my blog! They'll even tell you how you could score a date with them!
It's all part of my mission to make gay men go after what they want, so they can get what they want. To that effect at the bottom of every Gorgeous, Gay and Twenty Questions (GG20Q) you'll find a Facebook link to my hot interviewee. Go ahead and hit them up! They're waiting for you. Seriously
Now, allow me to introduce you to my inaugural GG20Q boy, Bobby Jones. And thank him in advance for letting me get down and dirty with him.
You'll get a NEW GG20Q every Hump Day here at Justin + 1... so be sure to come back next week to meet the next hottie!
- Justin Luke
Name: Bobby Jones
Age: 20 (soon to be 21 :D)
Body Type: Slim
Hometown: Crotchester, New York
Current City: New York, NY
Career: Fashion Design student at the Fashion Institute of Technology
Top/Bottom: That’s for me to know, and you to find out ;) JK... Bottom
Relationship Status: looking/just having fun
Describe to me your ideal guy… physically, career-wise, age, everything!
My ideal guy is between 5’9” – 6’ because i know im a midget and i don’t like someone to constantly be making me feel shorter than i already am. Im attracted to guys with brown hair and eyes, a good tan, and someone who takes care of himself. Im not into long hair or other slim guys. I prefer to date people older than myself probably a guy aged 23-28 and someone who is not in the same career field as me. I like someone who has a different set of interests cause it keeps me more interested.
It's a friday night… what are you doing?
Probably sleeping because im normally exhausted on fridays, have a lot of work to do for school, and plan on going out on saturday :)
What's one thing most people don't know about you?
Mmmmm theres a couple. One is that i was a small business owner in highschool and i placed third in a national competition for young business owners and entrepreneurs. And the other is that i played tennis for 15 years starting at age 3. But please don’t ask me to play… I'm retired now.
What's your favorite part of yourself?
My favorite part of myself is probably my laugh because its so obnoxious. Lolol.
What's your least favorite part of yourself?
My nose :(
What's the best way for someone to approach you if they want a date?
Be confident and know what you want. I don’t wanna be the one in charge i prefer a guy to go for it and make me know he wants it.
When is it okay to have sex with someone? After the first date? The third date? Before the first date?
I guess it all depends. If its your first date and you don’t really know the person you probably shouldn’t sleep with them unless theyre such a bad date you never want them to call you again. If your having sex before the first date i think you should be like fuck buddies and then its ok to try and date after that cause you have the previous chemistry and know you get along i guess. Im gunna go with patti stanger on this and say no sex before monogamy but lets be honest, how often does that really happen.
What's a deal-breaker when it comes to guys you're considering dating? Why?
People who are too clingy are a big turn off. I like a guy who wants to spend a considerable amount of time together but im a person who likes my space. I cant be around the same person all the time it never ends well i get irritable and start to get nitpicky. Oh and please don’t do drugs.
Give me a 30-second elevator pitch on why you'd make an awesome boyfriend/hook-up (whichever you're into) for someone.
Well i know im a good hookup so i guess ill give a pitch on why im a good boyfriend. I may be young but im goal oriented and i have my shit together. I know what i want out of my life and im determined to make my dreams come true. Im a good partner and i treat the person im dating amazing. And if that’s not enough just wait til you get me in bed haha.
What's your craziest ex story?
I have too many to choose from and theyre all too long for me to type and for anyone to actually be interested in reading. If anyone really wants to know ask me in person and ill spill the deets.
This is probably going to sound so sad but ive never really been taken on a proper first date so i don’t think i can apply anything to this section
What do you have to say to anyone who's read this, and wants to ask you out?
Just to man up and take the bull by the horns. Be a mans man and don’t be afraid to make the first move cause lord knows im not going to be making it.
Wanna say hi to Bobby? Send him a message here on Facebook and tell him you saw him on Gorgeous, Gay and Twenty Questions!