Gorgeous, Gay and 20 Questions with Pedro Rangel!

Happy Hump Day, Plus Ones!

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for GG20Q!

This week I brought a real stud on board to tell you all about him. His name is Pedro and he's beautiful, bendable, and billable! (As in he works as a go-go boy at Splash, so bring your singles!)

If you wanna drop Pedro a line after getting to know him, a link to his Facebook is down below.

xo Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

- THE STATS - 

NAME: Pedro (licious) Rangel

AGE: 25 but I look 19

HEIGHT: 5'11"

BODY TYPE: lean, athletic

HOMETOWN: Morleia, Michuacan Mexica

CURRENT CITY: New York City

CAREER: Dancer

TOP/BOTTOM: Depends but I'm mostly bottom

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: Waiting to get swept off my feet

- THE QUESTIONS -

Describe to me your ideal guy… physically, career-wise, age, everything!
Physically I am really attracted to big muscle guys. Usually 6 foot something about at least 180# and higher. I like being the little twinky arm candy. I would like him to have a job where he is stable and very content. If he is happy with work I will be :) I do like mentally mature men so they usually tend to be older. I like men who are comfortable in their own skin, insecurity and doubt can be a turn-off. Also flirting is something I like to do so he must like to do it with me too!

It's a Friday night… what are you doing?
Well since I dance on Thursday and Saturdays and Sundays at Splash I usually use that night to recover and chill, but I would like have that night as a movie night in w someone special :)

What's one thing most people don't know about you?
I actually love going to museums and I have a strong interest in the animal kingdom lol I actually wanted to be a zoologist when I was growing up.

What's your favorite part of yourself?
I am a very loyal friend and will do anything for close friends or my lover. I do love making people happy and I think that thats a good quality

What's your least favorite part of yourself?
When people screw me over (and not in the good way) I will do everything in my power to make their lives hell. I will not rest until my revenge is enough to satisfy me. So i guess you can say i'm a bitch when you cross the line.

What's the best way for someone to approach you if they want a date?
Honestly, it would be to just come up to me and say hello and introduce themselves. Start up a conversation. ( A compliment would'nt hurt either lol) Flattery gets you everywhere haha!

When is it okay to have sex with someone? After the first date? The third date? BEFORE the first date?
Lets be honest and say that it depends on the mood. If im wasted I might do it on the first night hahaha! But I try and hold out until it feels right.

What's a DEAL-BREAKER when it comes to guys you're considering dating? Why?
Instability and Poor hygiene!!!! cant stand either


Give me a 30-second elevator pitch on why you'd make an awesome boyfriend/hook-up (whichever you're into) for someone.
I am a smart, career oriented, mature young man. I know what I want in life and will not quit till I achieve it. I am loyal and honest, plus I am super flexible and can act out anything your dirty mind can imagine hahaha ;)

What's your craziest ex story?
I dated a singer in my cast about 3 years ago. He was addicted to prescription pills and wanted to commit suicide when we broke up. He believed that physical violence was ok in a relationship....I did not. 1 compound word for guys like that... Douche Bag!!

What's your BEST first date story?
Once a guy took me out to a beautiful dinner in a great restaurant and then to a strange location in the mountains where there was a small grassy field. When we arrived there was a blanket laid out with a box of chocolate covered strawberries and 2 bottles of wine on it...He def got laid that night lol!!

What do you have to say to anyone who's read this, and wants to ask you out?
If you think you can handle me and are not intimidated by me then you should def come up and say hi. It doesnt matter if im on a box at splash, tumbling in Central Park, or walking down the street. Say hi, what have you got to lose? Im really a nice guy. Feel free to tip me at Splash too ;-P

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Wanna drop Pedro a line? He's waiting for you to say "hi" on Facebook RIGHT HERE.

The Art of Breaking Up: 5 Ways to Finally Do It

This post is the second part of my new The Art of Breaking Up series. Be sure to check out the first one before you give this one a read.

And remember my disclaimer: use it if you think it's good advice, and DON'T use it if you don't! These are just tips I have gathered over my many years of breaking hearts and having my heart broken.

So here we are. You have decided that it's time for your beau to go... how do you make the cut? This isn't Project Runway or ANTM, so you can't just drop a catch phrase and cut to the scene of them packing their knives in the Top Chef kitchen. It requires more work. Unpleasant work. Nay, SHITTY work. But guess what? If you are doing the breaking up, you need to expect it to be dirty. Like slitting the throat of a chicken.

Here are a few tips for when it comes to the breakup:


1. It's Never the "RIGHT" Time
Basically what I mean by this is DON'T BE A COWARD. It will never, ever be a good day to break up with someone. Just like it's never a good day to get kicked in the balls. No matter when you break up with someone, they will ALWAYS have something to say about the day you did it. He broke up with me on my birthday! On Valentine's Day! A DAY BEFORE Valentine's Day! Two weeks AFTER Valentine's Day! On the anniversary of my dog's death!

Honestly, no one ever thinks of breaking up with someone on Valentine's Day. You were probably thinking about doing it for a long-ass time and finally couldn't take it any more. Once you've decided to break up with someone, do the both of you a favor and GET IT OVER WITH.

2. Be the Asshole
If you're breaking up with someone, you are always going to be the asshole. To make it as clean as possible, it is best to take ALL of the responsibility on yourself. It's your fault. You're the dick. You thought he was the one, and then you changed your mind. You're a depraved scumbag and a liar and you're so sorry you visited this horror on him.

It DOESN'T MATTER if your soon-to-be-ex is actually the asshole (or equal parts asshole). A breakup is a tiny bit easier when you steal their thunder, admit you're a dickface, and nod silently and sullenly as they repeat to you HOW MUCH of a dickface you are.

Because, in the end, who cares if he thinks you're an asshole? You're off to get single sex tonight.


3. Do it in person (or over the phone)
Only do it over the phone if you're far, far away from each other. Otherwise - do it in person.

NEVER break up with someone via Facebook or text or smoke signal. One: because it's shitty. Two: because there is now permanent proof on a social network, or your ex's phone, that you are a cockschmuck of the highest degree. And trust me, he WILL show everyone. There goes your reputation. All because you were too afraid to confront your guy face-to-face.

Again, break ups are SUPPOSED to be hard and uncomfortable. Stop trying to make them peaceful and rosy... it won't work. You owe the dumpee AT LEAST some respect. And you need to let him express his own feelings of anger/sadness/righteousness/whatever. It's just the human thing to do.


4. Don't Say Why
When you break up with someone, their first desperate clinging maneuver is to ask you why. Let me tell you right now: no matter how logical, realistic, honest, or simple you answer is, it will never be a good enough answer. If you're firm in your decision to end this, then end it. Don't tell them why.

Or if you MUST tell them why, tell them that you just can't. That it's not what you wanted. That you're not ready for something this serious RIGHT NOW (which is key, just in case you act like an idiot and start dating someone else two days later).

But guess what? All those answers are bullshit too. Who knows why you're breaking up with him? Well, you do. And that answer may range from: I met a hotter guy to I just wanna be slutty to I can't stand how high-pitched your voice is to any old thing.

The reason doesn't matter. What matters is that it's over. Don't belabor it.


5. Plead the Fifth
Once you have broken up with your ex, it is your job to SHUT THE FUCK UP ABOUT HIM. Don't start walking around town saying how small his dick is or how bad the acne on his back was. That's double shitty. Remember - you already broke his heart.

I don't care WHAT your ex says about you. When you hear it second-hand, shake your head, cluck your tongue, and say something like "I feel so bad I hurt him like that, he sounds really angry. I hope he can get over it soon." Why? Because he is destroyed, and he is angry. You might be too, but, again, say nothing about him. It's time to move on.

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And that's the end of another Art of Breaking Up post. Stick around for another one next week. And if you have any particular questions you want me to address - let me hear them!

Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

The Art of Breaking Up: How You Know It's Over

Over here at Justin Plus One, I've given a LOT of advice about dating, but most of it involves how to land the guy, how to keep the guy, and what to do with the guy once you get them.

But what about when it's time to ditch the guy?

Let's face it. Breaking up is as significant a part of a relationship as any other. To go into a relationship and expect it to last forever is a hopeful mentality, but it may not be completely accurate. You need to be comfortable with the notion of breaking up - because settling for something that's substandard, just because you don't want to be alone is both stupid and self-destructive.

SO I think I'm going to start a new advice series here: The Art of Breaking Up. It'll be a bunch of posts on breaking up DO's and DON'Ts. Tips I've amassed over my many years of dating, and breaking up with, guys.

Use what you will, ignore what you won't. I am merely offering this as a service!

- Justin Luke
BoiParty.com 


WHEN DO YOU BREAK UP?
This is a big deal right here. Naturally, when we enter into a union with a guy, we're imagining it lasting forever. We get married on the beach, wake up every morning to breakfast in bed, and sing with cute forest creatures while we do our chores.

Of course, that doesn't always happen. So... when do you know you should break up? Here are some good reasons: 


1. It's been a short time and you ALREADY have problems.
Pay close attention to this. All relationships should come with a Honeymoon period. It's where your partner is everything to you and your eyes are fluttering and you kiss and peck and Skype with each other every night. Your Facebook friends want to murder you because all you do is call each other "Kissy" on each other's walls, post pix of you kissing, and throw Hershey's Kisses at each other.

It won't last long, so enjoy it!

However, if you don't get that Honeymoon period, and are already fighting within a few days or weeks of dating... that's serious evidence that maybe this isn't what you're looking for. Everyone is entitled to a Honeymoon. If you're getting screwed in that department, take a deep breath and ask: why? If you're already incompatible and not getting along... what does the future hold?

Relationships get tougher over time, not easier. It's the physics of love. So if you're starting in a bad place... well, maybe you should go start in a different place with a different guy. 


2. They don't give you what you want, even after you ask.
Do you need to be texted every day? Do you want your beau to ask you about your day? Are you expecting sex in the morning, afternoon, and night? Do they need to go out with you, or stay in with you?

You have EVERY RIGHT to have expectations of your relationship... because we go into relationships to make ourselves happier and complete ourselves. And your partner has every right to not give it to you if it isn't something they want to... because they're looking for happiness, too. That's compatibility, folks.

If you feel something is lacking, tell your partner about it. Talk to them. Don't play games. Come right out and say what you want, let him tell you what he wants, and come to a CONSENSUS (ie - you give a little, he gives a little... this can't be one-sided). If THAT happens, and your partner still doesn't fix it, it may be grounds for breaking up - you're just not compatible. 


3. You catch them lying.
Lying is a BIG deal in relationships. Boyfriends need to be able to trust each other. And yes, the average human being tells up to 20 lies a day, but they tend to be white lies - lies that keep the world moving and peoples' feelings intact.

BUT if you catch your boyfriend lying to you, multiple times, it may be time to split up. But first, talk to them. Tell them that transparency is important. That you'd rather know than not know. If it continues... get outta there. You need to build trust and transparency, not walk around living in a world of doubt all the time. That's not enjoyable, and why be in something optional when you aren't enjoying it? 


4. Your eyes wander TOO much
Do you find yourself wanting to bone every hot guy you pass? Well, that's still pretty natural. We're sexual beings. Seeing a gorgeous guy will almost ALWAYS grab our attention. A relationship is not a blindfold. We still have penises.

HOWEVER, if that attraction gets more tempting, if you feel like you're missing out or not living it up or just want to hop in a few more beds, it may be time to take a trip to Splitsville. Maybe you're not ready to settle down just yet. 

A DISCLAIMER: this really only matters for recent relationships. I believe that all relationships should start with monogamy. At LEAST for a year. You need a baseline to start from.

If you and your partner have been together for years, and your eyes start wandering, I advocate some serious conversations. Perhaps you can open up your relationship a little bit? It's difficult, yes. It may not work, sure. But, as Dan Savage, the creator of It Gets Better has said: "Monogamy should not be the reason a perfectly good couple breaks up."

If your sex life is awesome, your relationship is awesome, and your love is strong AND all you are dealing with is a bit of excess testosterone and bonering... it may be worth talking over. 


5. The sex sucks.
Let's face it! Sex is important. VERY important. And if the fornicating you're getting isn't worth the fornicating you're getting, it's time to hightail it.

Are you both stubborn tops? That's bad. Same for bottoms. Simple sexual compatibility is VERY VERY IMPORTANT. But what about when the issue is more... complex?

It's ALL about communication first. Each of us is hardwired a different way sexually. And unfortunately, we don't come with Fuck Manuals. If you want something of your partner you MUST tell them. Do you want them to slap you around? Maybe you want them to let you rim them. Maybe you wanna role play, or focus more on the nipples, or not shower after the gym.

If you know what gets you going, be sure to let THEM know, or you can't possibly hold them responsible for not meeting your needs. No one's a Sex Psychic.


And that's it for today, chaps! Let me know what you think of this. And stay tuned for more installments in The Art of Breaking Up.

Gorgeous, Gay, and 20 Questions with Mat Eichler!

Happy Hump Day, Plus Ones!

It's time for GORGEOUS, GAY and 20 QUESTIONS (GG20Q)! In case you missed the kick-off of this new weekly series, be sure to check out my interview with hottie Bobby Jones from last week.

As for today? I pulled aside yet another smokin' hottie... one near and dear to my heart because he's a fellow STRONG ISLANDER!

His name is Mat Eichler. Get in his head, and his pants, by reading my interview with him.

And then, if you wanna chat him up, the link to his Facebook profile is at the bottom! Go ahead and reach out to him... he's expecting it :)

ALSO: if you want to be considered for a GG20Q interview, hit me up!

xo Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

- THE STATS -

NAME: Mat (yes with one T XD)

AGE: 20 (21 on January 6th and I am super excited! ^_^)

HEIGHT: 5'10"

BODY TYPE: Slim

HOMETOWN: Hauppauge, NY

CURRENT CITY: Hauppauge? lol

CAREER: I am a Student hopefully attending classes at Five Towns College for Music Production. I am in the process of building a production studio in my basement and trying to eventually start my own business and start out helping anyone who ever wrote song lyrics or even music and didnt know what to do with it to at least produce something for them so they can move on to bigger and better things like i dunno...youtube or itunes or something. So that's in the works.

TOP/BOTTOM: XD I consider myself more of a top but generally I won't complain if it turns out the other way around, just a preference.

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: I recently got out of a relationship that I probably shouldn't have stayed in for as long as I did. So now I guess I would say I am having fun right now but looking and open to the idea of dating in the near future.

- THE QUESTIONS -

Describe to me your ideal guy… physically, career-wise, age, everything! 
I would say that an Ideal guy would have to be someone between 5'8 to 6'2 but height is not absolutely necessary its not something someone generally chooses lol, I am highly attracted to guys with blond to dirty blond hair and lighter eyes, but as of late I have been very open to things that I am not 150% attracted to, so if someone has dark hair and dark eyes but that have a killer smile and a sense of humor and be generally interesting I will probably go to dinner with you haha. As far as age I try to keep it around my own age no younger than 18 but no older than around 28, usually I prefer a more artsy fartsy guy or at least someone who can appreciate music being that is a main interest of mine. Finally I'd say someone who is similar enough to me that we have common interests and can talk about a lot of things and share experiences but different enough to keep it interesting.


It's a Friday night… what are you doing? 
Trying to find somewhere to go out, with a bunch of friends boozin' and havin a few laughs (whats that from? XD)



What's one thing most people don't know about you? 
Most people as much as it is a large part of my life don't really know that I write music and lyrics and am constantly sitting at the piano writing. Or that i am trying to make a career out of music. I have been playing piano ever since I was about 2 years old in a very kiddy keyboarding class...the kind with balloons and stuffed animals all around the room but it was still fun and I have not given it up since. =]


What's your favorite part of yourself? 
Probably my personality and sense of humor =D


What's your least favorite part of yourself?
probably my nose >.<

What's the best way for someone to approach you if they want a date?
Generally, I like when a guy is honest about his feelings and is confident in themselves. I don't really like it when you have to ask your friend to come over to me to ask me if I think you are cute. I don't bite...lol


When is it okay to have sex with someone?
I think it is okay to have sex when if feels right for both partners, to put a concrete limit on it like first date or third date ect. is not natural and when it comes to dating everything has to be natural for both people.


What's a DEAL-BREAKER when it comes to guys you're considering dating? Why?
I'd say that there are a few deal-breakers, if I sense that someone has too big an ego...ya thats kind of a turn off. Confidence is one thing but Cockiness is another. Also if someone is like a piece of gum thats stuck to my shirt and wont come off thats also not very good either. I also hate to say this but if someone really doesn't like my music or build themselves up to at least appreciate it for what it is I usually am not too happy.


Give me a 30-second elevator pitch on why you'd make an awesome boyfriend/hook-up.
I'd make a good boyfriend because I have been through A lot of experiences which have allowed me to know what I want and what I don't want. I am honest, I don't lie and will tell it like it is. When I date someone and say yes, I do not do that loosely, I date with my heart and soul and put everything I am into someone that I care about and do so passionately. I also have direction and know what I want to get out of life and will stop at nothing until I get it.

What's your craziest ex story?
I regretfully say that all of my exes are rather obnoxiously bat shit crazy. If you are super interested on those matters that's probably something to ask me in person. I'd be more than happy to tell the many tells of my relationship failures.


What's your BEST first date story?
I'd have to say the best first date that I ever had was spent in New York City. Walking around the city and Central Park and getting rides on those little horse and buggy things and getting a little kiss at the end of the night in the center of Times Square. Corny but i also say that I love Cheese and Corn XD


What do you have to say to anyone who's read this, and wants to ask you out?
Just have an open mind and have a little rhythm in you and you have nothing to worry about. I am the kind of guy where you can let out that inner child that you locked up a long time ago and let him out. Its okay to be a goof and be silly around me because thats just what I am myself. If you are looking for someone who is Musical, Silly, Funny, Caring, Loving, and Bounce off the walls fun, then I'm your guy! =]

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Wanna drop Mat a line? Hit him up on Facebook right now.

Give Back to New York's Homeless Gays This Holiday Season

Are you out of the closet?

If yes, what's your coming out story? Mine was pretty amazing. I won't get into details, but let's just say that it involved a surprise You're Gay! party at my house, thrown by my parents, complete with a rainbow cake and 40 of my closest friends.

But, let's face it, my coming out story is rare. Many gays are lucky to have parents who have any sort of neutral/positive reaction to the fact that their children are gay.

And then, let's face reality: a lot of LGBT kids who come out (whether by choice or by revelation) end up literally thrown out of their homes. Sent packing to the street or a sibling's place or a friend's place, or any place. On their ass.

It's disgusting, but it's true.

I thank the universe every day for my lucky coming out situation, but I don't stop there. I CAN'T stop there.

My biggest pet project - the cause that takes the largest share of my heart and generosity - is housing for homeless gay youth. I give hundreds of dollars a year to organizations whose mission is to put a roof over the head of unlucky gays who lost their families and homes because of who they are.

So, if this holiday season has you feeling generous, allow me to direct you to a place to send your cash: The Ali Forney Center

This organization works every day to give homeless gay youth a place to live, learn, and grow. They are one of the greatest organizations I know of.

Because, yes, there may be many needs that many people have... but I truly believe we need a HOME before we can ask for anything else. When you sleep on the street and can't get something to eat, all of your other problems are just icing.

Consider sending a few dollars towards Ali Forney (the donation button is on the left side of their homepage). I know I will be.

Because everyone needs a place to call home. It's really that simple.

Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

Sexy Dude, Sexy Video: Hand Dance!

This hilarious and hot music video by the duo Liquid Diet made my day, as does one half of the duo behind it, the gorgeous Billy Hanson (formerly of Whore's Mascara)

What's a Hand Dance? Well, I'm sure you can figure it out. And if you can't, check out this music video to get a clue. And if you STILL don't have a clue, drop me a line and Billy and I will come by your place to give you a two-man hand dance.

I haven't asked Billy if this is okay, but I doubt he'll have an issue with me making that commitment on his behalf.

If you love Hand Dance, grab a FREE download of it over at Liquid Diet's Soundcloud page!

Gorgeous, Gay, and Twenty Questions with Bobby Jones!

Imagine you're at a bar, or club, or theater, or local store and you see the hottest guy right across the way. Oh, fuck. He is HOT! And GAY! Oh man, you want to go up to him. Chat him up. Take him out. Take him home, whatever.

But you don't. You're too nervous. Is he too hot? Is he taken? Who knows!? The doubt is just too much for you to make a move.

Well, here's my own little attempt at a solution. My NEW weekly series: Gorgeous, Gay, and Twenty Questions! The premise is as easy as I am when you get enough vodka in me: I pull aside a gorgeous, gay twenty-something and give him a good grilling for you.

Each week you'll meet a new gay hottie and they will spill out their most private thoughts, right here on my blog! They'll even tell you how you could score a date with them!

It's all part of my mission to make gay men go after what they want, so they can get what they want. To that effect at the bottom of every Gorgeous, Gay and Twenty Questions (GG20Q) you'll find a Facebook link to my hot interviewee. Go ahead and hit them up! They're waiting for you. Seriously

Now, allow me to introduce you to my inaugural GG20Q boy, Bobby Jones. And thank him in advance for letting me get down and dirty with him.

You'll get a NEW GG20Q every Hump Day here at Justin + 1... so be sure to come back next week to meet the next hottie!

- Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

- THE STATS -

Name: Bobby Jones

Age: 20 (soon to be 21 :D)

Height: 5’8”

Body Type: Slim

Hometown: Crotchester, New York

Current City: New York, NY

Career: Fashion Design student at the Fashion Institute of Technology

Top/Bottom: That’s for me to know, and you to find out ;) JK... Bottom

Relationship Status: looking/just having fun

- THE QUESTIONS -

Describe to me your ideal guy… physically, career-wise, age, everything!
My ideal guy is between 5’9” – 6’ because i know im a midget and i don’t like someone to constantly be making me feel shorter than i already am. Im attracted to guys with brown hair and eyes, a good tan, and someone who takes care of himself. Im not into long hair or other slim guys. I prefer to date people older than myself probably a guy aged 23-28 and someone who is not in the same career field as me. I like someone who has a different set of interests cause it keeps me more interested.


It's a friday night… what are you doing?
Probably sleeping because im normally exhausted on fridays, have a lot of work to do for school, and plan on going out on saturday :)


What's one thing most people don't know about you?
Mmmmm theres a couple. One is that i was a small business owner in highschool and i placed third in a national competition for young business owners and entrepreneurs. And the other is that i played tennis for 15 years starting at age 3. But please don’t ask me to play… I'm retired now.

What's your favorite part of yourself?
My favorite part of myself is probably my laugh because its so obnoxious. Lolol.


What's your least favorite part of yourself?
My nose :(


What's the best way for someone to approach you if they want a date?
Be confident and know what you want. I don’t wanna be the one in charge i prefer a guy to go for it and make me know he wants it.


When is it okay to have sex with someone? After the first date? The third date? Before the first date?
I guess it all depends. If its your first date and you don’t really know the person you probably shouldn’t sleep with them unless theyre such a bad date you never want them to call you again. If your having sex before the first date i think you should be like fuck buddies and then its ok to try and date after that cause you have the previous chemistry and know you get along i guess. Im gunna go with patti stanger on this and say no sex before monogamy but lets be honest, how often does that really happen.

What's a deal-breaker when it comes to guys you're considering dating? Why?
People who are too clingy are a big turn off. I like a guy who wants to spend a considerable amount of time together but im a person who likes my space. I cant be around the same person all the time it never ends well i get irritable and start to get nitpicky. Oh and please don’t do drugs.


Give me a 30-second elevator pitch on why you'd make an awesome boyfriend/hook-up (whichever you're into) for someone.
Well i know im a good hookup so i guess ill give a pitch on why im a good boyfriend. I may be young but im goal oriented and i have my shit together. I know what i want out of my life and im determined to make my dreams come true. Im a good partner and i treat the person im dating amazing. And if that’s not enough just wait til you get me in bed haha.

 
What's your craziest ex story?
I have too many to choose from and theyre all too long for me to type and for anyone to actually be interested in reading. If anyone really wants to know ask me in person and ill spill the deets.

What's your best first date story?
This is probably going to sound so sad but ive never really been taken on a proper first date so i don’t think i can apply anything to this section


What do you have to say to anyone who's read this, and wants to ask you out?
Just to man up and take the bull by the horns. Be a mans man and don’t be afraid to make the first move cause lord knows im not going to be making it.

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Wanna say hi to Bobby? Send him a message here on Facebook and tell him you saw him on Gorgeous, Gay and Twenty Questions!

J+1 Exclusive! Presenting Todd Michael Schultz

Every once in a while, I get an awesome exclusive on this blog. I am so happy that today is one of those days.

Allow me to introduce you to a gorgeous gay man with a gorgeous voice so you can say you knew about him before all of your friends when he explodes onto the scene.

His name is Todd Michael Schultz (or Todd Michael).

He was born to Bill Schultz, a television producer, and his college sweetheart Tracie. When he was a toddler, he picked up a sense of melody by listening to his father improvise and write on the piano.

He continued writing melodiess in his head, while falling in love with the craft of writing itself throughout his pre-teen years.

When he was about 14, he wrote his first fully strucutred song on paper. While that song is lost in the past, Todd continued working on his skill, teaching himself the piano at age 18.

At the same time he was studying creative writing at The Unversity of Iowa, he was also becoming a prolific and masterful pop song writer.

Check out his single RIGHT here!






If you loved it, grab it NOW on CD Baby for ninety-nine cents

And follow him on Twitter, too!

- Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

NYC vs LA: STFU!

Last week, my best friend and brother from a different coast, Chris Alexander wrote a post about the divide between LA and NYC. Namely, lots of bitter queens flinging shade 3,000 miles away from each other.

Now it's my time to weigh in: SHUT THE FUCK UP, PEOPLE!

I canNOT begin to tell you how annoying it is to hear about how much people love/hate LA or NYC. Allow me to poke my head out of the whirling dervish and say: BOTH cities are pretty awesome!

I will admit that Chris was right: it DOES seem that the cool NYC thing to do is to talk about how shitty/fake/phony/stupid Los Angeles is. I hear it all the time. And you know what? I must likewise apologize and admit that I have NEVER heard an Angelino give NYC boys a hard time. No, this is a one-sided fight... and one that needs to end.

I consider myself to be NYC. It is my every thought and action. These streets and avenues are like veins and arteries in my body. I've loved this city since I was a child and will love it until the day that I die. But guess what? That doesn't mean I have to insult LA. In fact, I kinda love LA!

That city is nothing like so many New Yorkers would have you believe (ESPECIALLY New Yorkers who have never been there, leaving you to wonder, hmmmm where have they gotten their concept of Los Angeles? The movies?) In fact, whenever I trip across the US to visit my friends on the West Coast, I often find the complete opposite: not fake bitches but, rather, friendly NICE people. Not pretension and expensive food but normal attitudes and personalities and apartments that are actually CHEAPER than the ones here.

And, might I add, Los Angelinos have a weird FETISH for New Yorkers. When I stopped by a gay bar or club in LA, I found that people wanted to sleep with me even more out there than back here. Because, not only was I fresh meat, but I was also a New York Strip. They get a kick out of New Yorkers. Funny enough, because they probably think we're cool because we hate them. Which we shouldn't.

Listen, kids. It's time to stop bashing Los Angeles. We're a five-hour plane ride apart. Who are we trying to convince? Middle America? Either they have no interest in traveling to either of us, or they will come and check out both. They have Film and TV. We have Fashion and Theater. We BOTH can boast the hottest people, per capita, in this nation.

LET IT GO! Each of us is good for different reasons, and bad for different reasons. We can have both, so why not take a chill pill and admit that maybe LA ain't so bad after all?

My dream is to be bi-coastal. I want a shag den in West Hollywood and a penthouse in Hell's Kitchen by the time I'm 35. I will fly back and forth (mostly avoiding severe climate on either side... bye bye snow!)

Why? Because both are pretty fantastic places to live. AND both are better than any other place in the US. Sure, you can make an argument for Boston, but it's way too cold and snowy and they have barely a gay scene to hang your hat on. Yes, San Fran is nice, but it didn't really do it for me. Austin? Never been there. Seattle? Never been there. Miami? Sounds nice! Never been there.

But you don't hear people walking around slamming Miami or Seattle or Boston or Philadelphia. Nope! Just LA. Has anyone taken a second to consider that maybe NYC people attack LA so much because of how SIMILAR it is to us? I think this works. Think about Long Island/Jersey/Staten Island. They can't STOP insulting each other. And, if you've ever ventured out to the three of them, you'll find the same gel-haired tanned beefcakes doing Jagerbombs.

Same here. Sure, Angelinos may be more tan, and may drive. But aside from that, how different are they from New Yorkers, REALLY? I've met plenty of "fake" people here in NYC. And let's not forget another commonality that LA and NYC share: people from everywhere move to them. So it's not like we're comparing native Angelinos to native New Yorkers.

So, in the end, which is better? LA or NYC? Neither. Both are great for different (and sometimes similar) reasons.

My final say is this: JUST SHUT UP ABOUT IT. They'll stay out there and tan and drive and party. And we'll do the same when the sun is out and we got a Zipcar for the weekend.

Shake hands, get a cocktail, and let's work on building a bridge already.

- Justin Luke
BoiParty.com

All The Single Santas... Put Your Sleighs Up!

Gay man and woman in Beyonce-style unitards?

Check.

The best pop Christmas song of all time?

Check.

SINGLE LADIES-ish CHOREOGRAPHY?

Check!

Boys, the Christmas season has finally begun!




- Justin Luke
BoiParty.com