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I like to classify sex into 3 basic rankings: Awesome, Average, and “Get me the FUCK out of here”. Average and GMTFOOH sex are, for the most part, slotted under the hookups I have had in the past. I cannot deny that I got around in college and am quite fortunate not to have acquired any “parting gifts” from my encounters. I actually made a number of platonic friends this way after the sexual tension had dissipated.
Typically, the awesome sex has fallen under the periods of time that I am dating or in relationship with someone. There is a certain level of trust and passion that can’t be matched with a casual encounter. Tapping into real heartfelt emotions rather than urges changes the playing field and enhances the entire experience.
Sex with a porn star, however, gets a category all to its own.
No doubt these instances double under the “Awesome” category. These guys know how to go at it. I have had three experiences; a TitanMen exclusive, an OnTheHunt guy, and a Randy Blue model. I would love to dive into why these guys are so much better, but I really am not sure. The possession of sexual energy is a given. Perhaps it is the mental subdividing of sex into pleasure and work. These guys are told what to do during the filming of scenes so much so that I would imagine they may not even enjoy it at times. Between changing camera angles and positions, it’s no wonder a 15 minute scene takes several hours to shoot. Outside of shooting scenes, they have free reign of their sexual lives. No director to tell them to stop. No annoying lights. Like a prisoner being released, they just want to let loose.
So what was different from the average sexual encounter? The energy, physically and mentally. It was rough, it was intense, it was like I was actually experiencing the way porn is viewed. Some actors aren’t attracted to each other or are gay-for-pay, but put on a show anyway for audience enjoyment. As the viewer, we want to believe that the sex is amazing and the actors could not be any more attracted to each other in order to vicariously enjoy the experience.
In addition, do not interpret this as a generalization, from my experiences porn stars usually step outside the realm of typical vanilla. If you ever happen to come across the opportunity to get to know or sleep with a porn star, I highly recommend it. For those that are wary of and judge porn stars for what they do, I suggest you all read Justin Luke’s archived post on the matter.
I found it to be quite accurate and insightful. Some of the most interesting people I have met are in porn, not simply because they are absent of income and make a living off their good looks, but because they simply want to do it. I would have never imagined meeting porn stars with jobs such as a middle school math teacher, a financial professional, and a boot camp trainer with a college degree who just so happens to be an amazing writer. So back the fuck off of porn stars. You have no right to judge them, especially when you don’t even know them.
But seriously, you should really try to sleep with one.
-Stokes Out
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